PARENTING FROM SCRATCH
free yourself from childhood trauma to become the parent your kids need and deserve
your path to healing, growth, and authentic parenting begins here
Parenting from Scratch is the program you need
to overcome your childhood trauma
and gain the loving,
peaceful family life you’ve always dreamed of.
Do you have a strained, low-contact, or no-contact with your own parent(s) due to childhood trauma, and now that you’re a parent of your own little one(s) find yourself struggling to create the loving family you never had?
Do you often feel like you have no idea what you’re doing?
Are you feeling a new sense of grief at not having your parents in your life when you need parental guidance and caretaking the most?
You know you have more potential to love, more ability to connect, more authentic ways to parent – if only you could
figure this out?
Parenting from Scratch is where you’ll unlock your true parenting potential, transforming your painful past into strong, beautiful relationships with the most important important people in your life.
Hi, I’m Sarva,
and I know just what
you’re going through.
Parenting after childhood trauma is like walking a tightrope over a whitewater canyon while carrying your child in your arms, constantly afraid of making a fatal misstep, anxious the whole time that the rope will snap and everything you’ve built will be lost forever. I was constantly battling the fear that I’d damage my child, second-guessing my every decision, and feeling guilty when I lost my cool over insignificant little stuff. It was utterly exhausting trying to get everything right without the support of loving parents when I needed them most, and being so preoccupied with making mistakes that I was missing out so much of the joy of those precious early years with my firstborn. I tried everything – therapy, books, scripts – but nothing seemed to stick when I was in the heat of the moment, leaving me frustrated and worried about permanently scarring my relationships with my partner and children. Deep down, I was terrified that if I didn’t figure this out, I would end up pushing my kids away, just like I had to distance myself from my own parents out of self protection.
When my child was born, I got everything I had ever wanted. Why was I so miserable?
to get through the crisis of early parenthood I had to…
01
read
I read 100+ books and scoured the Internet looking for solutions to the unique pains that come from bringing your own childhood trauma to new parenthood.
02
listen
I listened to hundreds of hours worth of podcasts, from new parents and experts alike, searching for clues as to what might be happening to me. I sought the advice of therapists and friends.
03
LEARN
I learned from over a dozen university courses from top minds in trauma processing, family therapy, child psychology and behavior experts, and happiness & resilience methodological training.
but no matter how much I learned, i was still struggling.
Can you relate?
Do you feel out of control?
Do you know what you should say, practically memorized the scripts, but find yourself getting unreasonably upset when your child exhibits challenging but age-appropriate behaviors?
Do you feel disconnected?
Do you feel adrift without family support when you need it the most? Did you dream of building your own beautiful family life, but feel like you have trouble joyfully connecting with your child and/or partner?
Do you find yourself easily overwhelmed?
Does your child’s crying set you off like nothing else can? Do you feel like your partner can’t understand why everything feels like such a big deal?
What if I told you there was a simpler way…
Here’s what I found: knowing what to do isn’t enough. Not even close. I needed to realign my intuition and do the deep work required to make peace with myself, my past, and pave the way for the future my family deserves. It wasn’t easy, but I figured out a way to integrate my past trauma into my parenting experience to become the strong, confident parent that my child needs. I stopped with the scripts and the white-knuckling through my emotions trying desperately to stay calm when I felt anything but. I reconnected with my inner child, and found strength and resilience. I was suddenly able to navigate challenges with grace and deft action. This journey of self-discovery and healing transformed not just my parenting, but my entire approach to life and relationships.
Imagine how different it’d be if you could show up in the most important relationships in your life with intention, connection, and love!
Introducing…
Our exclusive, supportive parent community to help you
become the confident, authentic parent your child needs.
Do you feel like your past is casting its long shadow onto your present experience? When you join this community you’ll find out how to achieve your parenting personal best. You’ll gain the ability to navigate intense emotions without losing control, transforming triggering moments into opportunities for growth, connection, and trust with your kids and family.
Stop parenting reactively, build self-control, and
get the peaceful, loving family life you’ve always dreamed of
with this mini-course.
when you join the
parenting from scratch community
YOU WILL GET
SUPPORTIVE GROUP COACHING
Each week you can join group coaching sessions so that you can gain from the experience of others. You’ll have support you need to help you navigate challenges as they come up.
ACCESS TO OUR RESOURCE LIBRARY
Get access to self-paced courses, tactical parenting one-pagers, relationship workshops, trauma healing plan, daily connection rituals, listening skills exercises, family activity planners, and so much more.
1:1 VIDEO GUIDANCE
Got a question? Record a quick video and submit it to get personalized, individual coaching in quick, digestible bites.
YOU WILL ALSO DISCOVER
… how to move from feeling overwhelmed and alone to feeling confidently capable. Form strong relationships and open yourself up to find a supportive network.
…how to shift from anxiety about repeating harmful patterns to trusting your ability to create a loving, nurturing environment. You’ll find more joy in the every day, building secure attachments that last a lifetime.
…how to manage your triggers effectively, responding to your children with patience, understanding, and connection.
…how to approach parenting with renewed energy, focusing on fun and playfulness rather than crisis management.
IS THIS PROGRAM FOR YOU?
No
You’re completely comfortable with your parenting style don’t feel like you need to make any changes.
You’re looking for ways to control or change your children’s behavior, instead of changing yourself.
You’re looking for quick fixes or magic solutions without doing some personal growth work.
Yes
You’re a parent estranged from your own parents and struggling to break generational patterns, but you’re not sure how. 🤔
You find yourself overreacting to minor parenting challenges and suspect that it’s due to your own childhood trauma – and you are so over it. 🙅
You constantly second-guess your parenting decisions and struggle with confidence, but you’re ready to step into your power. 💪
!!!
LIMITED TIME
OFFER
Lock in our lowest ever
price before it goes up
on January 1st
ONE-TIME
ANNUAL UPGRADE
$260
We’re constantly adding new content and resources – enroll today to lock in the lowest price for a full year!
- Everything in in the monthly membership plus…
- Peer community of parents who get it
- Regularly updated resource library
- Group calls and video support
- Bonus content & workshops
new upgrades
added each month
12
Monthly Payments
$27
Get early access and lock in this price before it goes up next month!
- Self-paced course
- Resources to get you going
- One-on-one coaching
new upgrades
added each month
LASTING, POSITIVE
CHANGE BEGINS ON
DAY ONE
Past to Parenting Impact Assessment
You’ll learn how to integrate your past experiences with your practices today, and develop the clarity and insight you need to step into the future.
Customized Trigger Management Plan
You’ll identify your triggers and get an easy, quick-win coping strategy to de-escalate and get back to baseline.
Sustainable Self-Care Action Plan
You’ll make a realistic self-care plan that you can stick to so you can get the care you need to be able to care for others.
Wow, thank you so much. I will try this and may reach back out when I’m ripping my hair out again in a few days 😵💫. There’s no handbook on parenting and it’s always helpful to have someone who’s done the research to consult! Thanks for what you do!
Mom of a 3-year-old
PARENTING FROM SCRATCH SIGNATURE FRAMEWORK
Let’s see what’s inside
AWARENESS & ACCEPTANCE
In this deep dive into your parenting journey we’ll explore your parenting triggers and their roots. We’ll identify recurring patterns and challenges, and map a way forward.
Reframing & Reparenting
We’ll explore the past traumas that shaped you into who you are today. You’ll develop a new parenting narrative and uncover on the spot trigger management tools.
setting firm, loving boundaries
You’ll develop an intuition for what it feels like to set firm, loving boundaries that safeguard your children’s dignity and your authority. End the pendulum swing between being permissive and explosive.
caring for ourselves and others
Learn to assertively protect your time, put on your own oxygen mask first, and create the supportive community you need to be able to go further together.
but wait, there’s more…
Fast Action Bonuses
register by November 30th & receive…
The Boundary Builder Cheat Sheet to help you navigate the holiday season while maintaining no-contact and low-contact family ties
The Chosen Family Guide to Celebrating the Holidays to help you build joyful traditions in a brand new way
Peace on Earth: The No-Contact & Low-Contact Guide to the Holidays toward letting go of past hurts and moving on while protecting yourself and your family
Total Value
$900
Price for three sessions of one on one coaching with other parent coaches
$129
Price for just one masterclass from other parent coaches
$279
Price for annual membership to other parent coaching sites without individualized consultation
$10,800
Average annual price of working with a therapist
OVER $12,100 ANNUAL VALUE
Thank you for your incredibly kind words ❤️ I had no idea how much parenting would surface my own trauma.
Mother of a toddler
kind feedback
FROM PARENTS
Thank you, this is really helpful! I can now visualize how to do it.
This helps a lot! Thank you!
Thank you for this!
This worked!
MOTHER OF TWO
Save 20% Annually
When you sign up for an annual one-time payment, you get
20% off the price of the monthly membership.
You’ll have exclusive access to our annual content calendar, with exclusive members-only modules, workshops, discussions, group support calls, free-for-the-community events, our ever-growing resource library, and more!
ONE-TIME
ANNUAL UPGRADE
$260
We’re constantly adding new content and resources – enroll today to lock in the lowest price for a full year!
- Everything in in the monthly membership plus…
- Peer community of parents who get it
- Regularly updated resource library
- Group calls and video support
- Bonus content & workshops
new upgrades
added each month
12
Monthly Payments
$27
Get early access and lock in this price before it goes up next month!
- Self-paced course
- Resources to get you going
- One-on-one coaching
new upgrades
added each month
LIMITED TIME
OFFER
save 20% when you sign up
for the annual membership plan
FAQ
What makes Parenting from Scratch different from other parent coaching and education programs?
Parenting from Scratch is a parenting program focused specifically on parents with childhood trauma, especially those of us with strained, low-contact, and no-contact relationships with our parent(s).
I am struggling, and I want to open up, but this is a very sensitive topic. How do I know if I can be vulnerable?
This group is a safe, private space for parents who understand what you’re going through. We’ve all had moments when we couldn’t be as measured or present as we’d like to be. Even me. We’re not here to judge, we’re here to help, support, and flourish. You can’t grow in darkness.
What if I want personalized support but coaching is too much of a financial stretch for me right now?
Your membership includes group coaching, peer support. PLUS you can submit a video to get personal individual video guidance – so you can get the help you need.
Will this work for me? I have a very unique history and set of challenges.
Our stories may be different, but our suffering is similar. This program is for any parent with trauma who wants to develop a more intentional parenting style and head into a brighter future based on their unique family’s values and visions for the future.
Money back guarantee
Q: Is there a money-back guarantee?
A: Absolutely. We stand by our offerings, so much so we offer a 7-Day no-questions-asked money-back-guarantee.
LET’S GET YOU SOME SUPPORT.
Hi, I’m Sarva, and I founded Parenting from Scratch because believe parents have the power to change the world, one family at a time.
I spent way too long figuring something out that felt like it should be simple: how to have joyful, uncomplicated relationships with the most important people in my life.
I want to share what I’ve learned with other parents, because doing the work to heal from childhood trauma has a transformational effect on every important relationship in our lives. Including the relationship with ourselves. 💜
get in touch
contact@parentingfromscratch.com
www.parentingfromscratch.com
As traumatized children, we always dreamed
that someone would come and
save us. We never dreamed that it would,
in fact, be ourselves as adults.
-Alice Little
parenting from scratch
intuitive parent coaching
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